Back Stateside

Not shortly after my second post, I found out about an opportunity to work in a foreign country for an extended period of time. I enthusiastically volunteered. The gapped timing is due to my time away and the criticality and urgency of my work occupied much of my time and energy.

Fortunately, I am back with ample time to renew my domain, provider services, and so on. I do appreciate your advanced understanding of the situation. Although I will not bore you with technical details of my job, I did make note of life lessons from my time there that I will retroactively share with you.

Although there are things in foreign countries I believe we could emulate to improve the state of our country, I am eternally grateful of my return. More to follow!

5 Benefits of Living in the Desert

Having lived in a remote desert town for almost two years, I’ve come to appreciate its own quirks that do not exist in the city. If you end up living in an arid paradise or consider moving to this area, consider the following possibilities that may encapsulate your soul.

1. More Homemade Cooking

Nothing screams isolation like limited options for novel culinary adventures. Be it due to distance from lush vegetations or higher cost of transporting ingredients, living in the remote desert town means less outing options. If you still wish to feed yourself, you must “fend for yourself” by preparing your own meals. Although food is more expensive here than in a more coastal area, it’s still cheaper to cook your own since you’re still avoiding the added cost of paying cooks and waitresses. Except here, the restricted option further adds urgency to home cooked meals.

2. Beautiful Scenery

You must see it to believe it. Wait until nightfall where you see clear sky under the starry night, free from urban pollution. Need I say more?

#SentimentalSunday to a nice, cool, much-needed #hike in #JoshuaTreeNationalPark. ?

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3. Improved Driving Skills (and Confidence!)

Having lived in a city prior to the move, the maximum duration I spent traversing the freeway to reach the final destination lasted 45 to 50 minutes. Where I currently live, I must drive at least 50 minutes each way to reach an “urban town” of approximately 50,000 residents, 90 minutes each way to reach a miniature city of over 100,000, and at least 3 hours each way to reach a major city (pending traffic) of over 1 million.

This means planning a trip to enjoy urban vibrance in unfamiliar areas requires maintained bearing at the face of detours. Furthermore, it also requires familiarizing rest stops. That last thing anyone wants is an uncomfortable driver.

4. Explore Nature

One of the reasons I revived my blog is to cover my future hiking adventures, even if it means revisiting old routes. The number of possible trails to hike is so abundant, I considered extending the contract of my job just to allow extra time.

Contrary to the popular opinion, the desert is not a flat plain. It has a lot more to offer than what it initially lets on. It brings forth a variety of life forces that subsist on dry heat and is found nowhere else. The geographical structure of the desert forces you to adjust your survival skills during your hike, making you more attuned to the fluctuating temperatures that this climate offers within the day.

It teaches you adaptation.

5. Peace and Focus

When you live in a remote area, you will be physically removed from the urban entertainment. Even for an introvert like me who enjoys staying home most of her time, such isolation is akin to mild withdrawal symptom from the urban energy under which I was conditioned to operate.

Surviving the isolation required a shift in my focus from, for example, studying at a coffee shop and playing in an orchestra to becoming one with the nature through hiking and camping. As manmade distractions gradually dissolve, my mind gradually finds peace with the help of what the peaceful desert has to offer. The desert’s minimalist design affords me peaceful revelations I could not have conceived if I had stayed in the city. For that, I am eternally grateful.